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Note: The message of this post is about more than veiling and modest dress.
I used to follow this online Catholic group that was all about dressing modestly.
Oftentimes, ladies would show what they were wearing to church and, to be honest, it became a bit comical. In an effort to not show their womanly shape or their ankles or anything, some of them would layer so much, they ended up looking like the little brother in “A Christmas Story” when the mom shoves him into the bulky snowsuit.
They were strict adherents to veiling, which is fine. I’m not anti-veiling. But, what sealed the deal for me leaving the group was when one lady took a picture of herself going into church with a opened fast-food napkin on her head because she forgot her veil at home.
Because she thought this was a rule that had to be enforced, she did something completely undignified and ridiculous. Then in the comments, other ladies were encouraging her “creative use” of keeping the rule.
I was done.
As Catholics, we take a lot of heat for having too many rules. The truth is, though, the Church doesn’t.
There are only six Church Commandments that we are required to follow outside of the 10 Commandments, and obviously, the Two
Greatest Commandments given to us by Christ.
1. Attend Mass on Sunday and Holy Days of Obligation.
2. To fast and abstain on the days appointed.
3. To confess our sins once a year.
4. To receive Holy Communion during the Easter time.
5. To contribute to the support of the church. (There is no set amount)
6. Observe the Church’s marriage laws.
That’s it, however this is not a pitch for doing the bare minimum.
There are many other practices that the Church allows for or encourages, but they are just that—practices. There are also somethings that the Church allows for that you may not like and the good news is, is that you are free to do it in the way you would prefer.
If you demand or force people to follow “rules” that the Church does not recognize as binding, you are being like the Pharisees and laying heavy burdens on people. You have set yourself up as the authority and disregarded the teaching authority of the Magisterium of the Church.
We don’t want to be so whetted to enforcing what we want to be rules that we come off us joyless, burdensome, or ridiculous, Catholic Pilgrims.
Live the Faith boldly and travel well this Sunday.
*St. John the Baptist Catholic Church, Napa, California
This bridge in Alençon is where Sts. Zelie and Louis Martin first met in April of 1858. It is called Pont Saint-Léonard or St. Leonard's Bridge. These are the parents of St. Thérèse of Lisieux. As Zelie passed Louis on the bridge, she heard a voice say, "This is he whom I have prepared for you." I had a very similar experience when I first met my Dustin. When you learn about their life together, you can see that they were really in love. They loved spending time together, missed each other when they were apart and wrote romantic love letters to each other. They worked as a team, a very holy team. I think sometimes we think that if a couple is striving for holiness in their marriage that, in effect, means it will be bland, boring, and somber. Yes, it should be wholesome, but that doesn't mean it should lack fun, spontaneity, and romance. Even married Saints whispered sweet nothings in each other's ears. And God delights in this. He wants married couples to be in love and to have fun together. He wants them to enjoy each other's company and to build a meaningful life. Of course this means being faithful to each other, being decent and pure in your marriage (no vulgarity or indecent acts) and not subjecting people to over-the-top, awkward PDAs. When you build a marriage that is grounded on the foundation of Faith in Christ, you will build a good life together. Your children will be at peace knowing that their parents are one. Marriage isn't always easy and effort is required. Being in Alençon and seeing the places where these married Saints built a life together, reminded me that there is nothing quite so beautiful here on earth as a husband and wife striving to get each other and their children to Heaven. It makes a lasting impression. Live the Faith boldly and travel well this Tuesday, Catholic Pilgrims.
Continue ReadingAs most of you know, right after we moved across the country, my family went on pilgrimage to France. All throughout the pilgrimage, I was in awe of the art I witnessed--the amazing statues, the churches, the paintings, the little details in the quaint French villages, the lace, the flowers. Constantly, I was just astounded at the work of human hands. And throughout the pilgrimage, several of us mentioned the fact that beautiful things take time to make and "thank God people had the patience and fortitude to see these incredible projects through." Upon arriving home, my household goods were delivered--literally the day after we got back--and I set to work trying to make my house a home. After about a week in, I was frustrated that things weren't moving along. Then I got really mad and gripped about how long it was taking and stormed around saying, "This is taking forever!" I wanted the house to be beautiful, homey, and cozy within days. On Saturday, I was still feeling anxious about it all when my son said, "The boxes are really clearing out! It feels more like home." I looked around and where I saw a mess, he saw the effort and the effects of all the work. I had to kick myself. Here I was in awe of the time it took to make gorgeous sculptures like the one in the picture from Chartes, and I couldn't allow myself even a few weeks to get a house together. I wasn't allowing myself time to cultivate beauty, yet I appreciated artists ability to do so. Beautiful things do take time. Even the creation of the world didn't happen in an instant. God didn't snap His fingers and the earth was blue and green and perfect. He allowed things to develop over time, perhaps to teach us to allow time for beauty. Beautiful things take effort and patience, Catholic Pilgrims, and sometimes, they take a lifetime of work, yet the end result is worth it all. Have a great Monday.
Continue ReadingToday's small-town church showcase comes to us from Ammannsville, TX, a tiny unincorporated town between San Antonio and Houston. This is St. John the Baptist Catholic Church and it is one of the famous painted churches of Texas. Stop in Schulenburg Chamber of Commerce for a Painted Churches Tour map if you plan to cruise around and see these works of art. I'm getting conflicting numbers on exactly how many churches are on the tour, so maybe one of you in the know can fill us in. They are called painted churches not because of the outside, but because of the inside. St. John the Baptist is known for its pink interior, which looks like it is always ready for Gaudete and Laetare Sunday. The inside is lovely and shows how the German and Czech people put a lot of devotion into making these churches beautiful. I've never been on the Painted Churches Tour, but it definitely looks like a "pilgrimage" I need to take. All the churches are on the Registry of National Historical Places. So, if ever wandering around the big 'ole state of Texas and you need something to do, go on the Painted Churches Tour. I think you'll love it. Live the Faith boldly, Catholic Pilgrims, and travel well.
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