Daily Reflection: 15 April 2024

Last Thursday, my son had a baseball game. Afterwards, his team was going to have a little birthday celebration for one of his teammates.

Since they were going to have pizza and cake, I knew I needed to get some gluten-free pizza and a gf cupcake for my son so he could feel a part of the party.

I ended up getting two gf cupcakes thinking that my husband and I could just split the second one. It looked so yummy and I was looking forward to eating it. Then I got three small gf pizzas.

At the party, my son came over to me and said, “Mom, DJ has to eat gluten free, too. Can he have some of our pizza?”

Happy I’d bought enough, I gave him some.

But, then, I realized that he should have the other cupcake. And wouldn’t you know, I got super selfish. I didn’t buy extra cupcakes and I really wanted to eat it, and for a long minute, I wrestled with myself about giving it to him. Then, thankfully, my head said, “Give it to him.”

As soon as in gave it away and saw the look on his face, I wondered why I was ever so selfish. His mom was so thankful and DJ had a big smile on his face as he shared in dessert with the other boys.

Jesus says in our Gospel reading today, “Do not work for food that perishes but for the food that endures for eternal life.”

Trying to horde a stupid cupcake that I could literally go buy anytime was working for food that perishes.

Thankfully, Catholic Pilgrims, I overcame that selfish desire and was able to give a gift and the pleasure I received in return was way better than any temporary pleasure from a cupcake.

Live the Faith boldly and travel well.

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