Daily Reflection: 16 May 2023

This is the new St. Isidore’s Church at Kansas State University—my daughter’s spiritual home while she’s been a student.

If you know what the old church looked like, well, this is an astounding upgrade. They wanted a more beautiful church and, most importantly, they needed more room, as St. Izzy’s is thriving. They average 200 students at Daily Mass. That’s Daily Mass, mind you.

When my husband and I were dating, neither one of us were living out our faith. My husband is a cradle Catholic and he literally lived right across the parking lot from this church and hardly ever went. I was Protestant, but was most definitely lukewarm, more like chilly.

I found out I was pregnant out of wedlock my senior year. Dustin and I already knew we would be married, but we didn’t intend to do things backwards. However, God can always create good out of any situation.

The birth of daughter forced us to think about our spiritual lives. She made it important again to us and so Dustin and I began the journey of trying to decide to go down the Protestant path or the Catholic path. It was a huge source of contention for a long time.

In our “battling,” God held us together as Dustin learned to defend his Catholic Faith and I learned to humble myself and realize that I had always been incredibly wrong about Catholicism. We came out stronger on the other side and we became a united Catholic family. I did not become Catholic because I just wanted us to all be the same with regards to our faith life. I became Catholic because I could not deny any longer it is the Church that Christ founded.

My daughter has been nourished here at St. Isidore’s, which is an answer to my prayers. While I love K-State, it is a secular school and I knew that my daughter would be challenged to defend her faith there. I prayed she would be strengthened at St. Isidore’s and she was, more than I could have imagined. Father Gale, Father Matt, and the Focus missionaries there are doing amazing things and I am forever grateful.

So, if you’re ever in Manhattan, Kansas—aka Manhappiness—stop by and see the new church. Amazing things are happening there, Catholic Pilgrims.

Have a blessed Tuesday.

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