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As I was preparing today’s podcast, I really had to pause and think about St. Teresa’s writings.
She was laying out how there are two types of dryness in the spiritual life—one is our fault, the other is a trial given by God. With regards to the latter, think of of St. Mother Teresa of Calcutta.
The spiritual dryness that is our fault happens when we are too confident in just how “Christian” we are. We go to church, we pray, we read our Bible, we stay away from all the bad things.
We think, “Hey, I’m doing all the right things, I’m good to go.”
The dryness, however, happens because we never seek to go deeper. St. Teresa shares that we see this in the young man who approaches Jesus and asks what he needs to do to get to Heaven. He assures Jesus that he does all the things right.
And then, Jesus presses him to go deeper. He tells him to get rid of his riches and follow Him. We all know how it ends, the young man walks away sad and unwilling to go deeper with Christ.
At that point, I bet, his spiritual life dried up. He probably didn’t abandon his faith, but he was just asked to grow and he declined. That will cause dryness. Maintaining the status quo is not the goal of our faith life. Holiness is the goal and holiness is a process that is never complete in this life.
For love of God, Catholic Pilgrims, we should always want to learn more about God, grow more, and be willing to say “yes” when He asks us to take the next step.
Have a blessed Monday.
*Picture is of the church at Fatima.
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