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Someone showed up this week commenting on one of my blogs that I wrote years ago about marriage.
The blog is titled, “What Do You Mean There’s No Marriage in Heaven?!” The guy commenting seemed very unsettled by this fact.
He had numerous concerns. He wanted to know about people who didn’t marry in this life, wouldn’t they be given that chance in Heaven?
Wouldn’t there be romance and sex in Heaven? How could there not be?
I tried several times to explain that before the Second Coming, if you are in Heaven, you don’t have a body. You are spirit like the angels. Immaterial beings don’t eat, sleep, drink, marry, or have sex. After the Second Coming, our bodies will be reunited to our souls, but the point of Heaven is full union with God and the Saints. Heaven is worship of the Almighty.
I also explained that marriage isn’t needed in Heaven and so when Jesus says there isn’t marriage in Heaven, we must take Him at His Word. But, this doesn’t mean we will walk around sad and depressed. In Heaven, we love perfectly. We, also, don’t lack anything; we don’t ever feel like we are missing out on something.
I can sympathize with this guy. We don’t know exactly what Heaven will be like, so we try to fill it with pleasurable stuff we find here on earth to make it make sense.
But, as I’ve been reading the Saints works, they all have a common theme in their writings: They want to get to Heaven to be with God. That’s it. God is their sole focus. Those that have had visions of Heaven and experience ecstasy only want to get back to what they experienced and it’s always that deep union with God.
It’s not wrong to desire to see loved ones in Heaven. The love we will have with them will be unreal in its perfection. It’s not even wrong to wonder how you and your spouse will interact there.
But, we must be careful, Catholic Pilgrims, not to idolize those relationships over God. If they are our sole focus for wanting to gain Heaven—and not worship of God, we have set them up as idols. Just something to be mindful of.
Have a blessed Wednesday.
ITALY PILGRIMAGE
‘Journey with the Saints’
OCTOBER 23-31, 2023
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