Daily Reflection: 19 March 2023

Recently, I’ve had to shout out to several people to warn them or I’ve seen other people yell out to warn.

Awhile back, my son about strolled out in front of a car at church and I yelled to get his attention. Weeks later, in the same spot, I had to shout at an older women because she, too, was about to mosey out in front of a car.

My neighbor had to yell at his son because he was playing too close to the road and a big work truck came barreling down our street.

We all understand why someone raises their voice when sending up a warning for potential bodily harm. The point is to snap someone out of it, alert them to danger.

It would do absolutely no good if you saw someone about to be smashed by a car to say gently, “Um…excuse me, sorry, but, yeah…hey…that car is really coming. I don’t wanna tell you what to do but you might, if you want to, of course, be careful.”

This would be highly ineffective and, also, stupid, because it would be too late. Our niceties could get them killed.

More important than bodily health is spiritual health. I know that many don’t believe this but it’s true. The simple fact is that all of us will die, we can’t escape bodily death. But, where our souls end up is determined by the state of our souls. If there is unforgiven mortal sin on our souls, Hell will most likely be our reality.

If we love people, truly love them, we will not want this for them. We must be straightforward about sin and not beat around the bush. Obviously, we don’t have to be jerks, but the sugary sweet way many go about trying to warn people of spiritual danger isn’t effective. It makes people think it’s not that serious.

Today, St. Paul says in our second reading from Ephesians, “Take no part in the fruitless works of darkness; rather expose them.”

We have to call a sin a sin, Catholic Pilgrims. Will everyone listen? No. Will everyone like what we have to say? No. Am I suggesting shouting at people? No. But, I think you can look around and see where the nicey-nice approach has gotten us and it’s not a good place. Firmness, courage and tempered charity are what is needed to hopefully save souls.

Have a blessed fourth Sunday of Lent.

*Chapel in the Palace of Pena in Sintra, Portugal.

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