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Well, it’s getting to the point where my options for buying things has dwindled to like two places.
I’ve resigned myself to the fact that I will need to get a loom and a sheep to start making my own clothes.
I’ve also realized that soon I’ll have to brew my own beer, even though I don’t drink it.
I’ll have to start smashing berries and color chalk to create makeup for myself.
It wasn’t that long ago that we were told that gender stereotypes were just a social construct. Females didn’t have to like the color pink or just play with dolls. Males didn’t have to just like blue and play with trucks.
And most of us said, “Yeah. Those things don’t make you female or male, it’s just that the genders tend towards certain things, that’s all.”
As a woman who has a wide—WIDE—range of interests, I understand that what I like doesn’t make me a woman. Part of me loves watching football, playing catch, listening to rock music, and mowing the lawn. The other part of me loves dresses, cooking, tea parties, and reading romantic classics. I have a very blended disposition.
But, now, we are told that if a man just puts on a dress, wears gobs of makeup, grows out his hair, and “feels” like a woman, well, all those are signs that he must be.
The current logic says that the social constructs DO prove you are a male or female.
Which is it, secular world?
Here, let me help you.
Men don’t have only one way they can be. Yeah, not all guys like big muscles, big trucks, and AC/DC. They are still a man.
Women don’t have only one way they can be. Yeah, not all women like long hair, dresses, or wearing makeup. They are still a woman.
See, what you’ve done here, is confined people to a very narrow box and ignored the complexities of human dispositions. For you, women are simply identified as long haired, makeuped, dress-wearing bimbos. Anyone like that—BOOM—woman. Men are simply identified as baggy-shirt wearing, bearded, ball-capped dudes. Anyone like that—BOOM—man.
God made us male and female. That’s it. Nobody is born in the wrong body. Everybody is unique and likes different things and has unique personalities; that doesn’t change the reality of biology.
One of my favorite things to do with my kids is to read to them. Obviously, I don't read to my adult kids anymore, but all through their growing up years, I did. I still do, today, with my son. All the books they have to read for our homeschool curriculum are read by me. I will miss the day when I don't have one of my children sitting next to me as I read great literature to them. Also, at the end of the day, our family sits and listens to me read a book. While reading, I enjoy giving the characters "voices." From time-to-time, I'll purposely use the wrong voice for a character and it's funny to see how quickly they protest. Or, sometimes I'll pick up the book and start reading not using any voices and they will quickly stop me and tell me to "read it right." Oh, how I love reading to people. It's why I enjoy doing my podcast so much. I truly love reading out loud the writings of the Saints. I attend Daily Mass in this tiny little Blessed Sacrament room you see here in the picture. I'm grateful we have this reserved space here on base. There are just a handful of us that can make it, so I've become the unofficial Daily Mass lector. Most times when I read the first reading, I watch as those in attendance close their eyes and listen to the words. I find it to be a truly humbling experience to read the Word of God out loud to listening ears. Even though I'm reading to just a handful of people, the gravity of it all does hit me. I've been told that I have a good reading voice many times. Maybe it's the fact that I'm a Midwesterner. I used to think, "Well, what a no-big deal talent." But, maybe not. If God gave me such a talent, then it was meant to be used for good. Every time I read at Daily Mass and watch as people take in the words from the Bible, I'm reminded that with God, no gift or talent is menial or insignificant. Whatever your gifts are, Catholic Pilgrims, even if they seem insignificant or trivial, God gave them to you for a great purpose. Use them for His Glory. Have a great Thursday.
Continue Reading"You believe Mary is a goddess." "Stop giving worship to Mary." "She was just a regular sinner like you and me." "Mary was no different than the donkey Christ rode on for Palm Sunday." These are just a small sampling of comments I've heard over the years whenever I've written about Mary. Two things can happen when we look at Mary apart from Christ. The first thing that can happen is actually setting Mary up as an idol. I think it would be naive and disingenuous to pretend that there aren't people that give more attention to Mary than to God. The second thing that can happen is dismissing the Mother of Our Lord and giving her no more significance than apparently a beast of burden. Both are utterly and dangerously wrong. The Catholic Church teaches "What the Catholic faith believes about Mary is based on what it believes about Christ, and what it teaches about Mary illumines, in turn, its faith in Christ." CC 487 Mary is not a goddess and the Church has never taught that. She is, however, the Queen of Heaven. Why? Because Christ is our King and, especially in ancient times, the queen was the king's mother, not his wife. Mary should not be worshipped--worship is for God alone. However, she should be given special veneration and honor. Why? Because she is the Mother of Our Lord. In her womb, the Savior of the world grew. Mary is a human, just like you and me, but she, above all other humans, had the unique role of being the woman through whom the Christ-Child would come into the world. Mary was born and remained her entire life free of sin. She is the Immaculate Conception. Not by her own power was she able to do this, but by the special graces given to her by God. Why? Because it is fitting that the Mother of Our Lord be stainless. She assumed into Heaven not of her own power, but by the power of her Son. Why? Because it is not fitting that the woman who held Christ within her body, who nursed Him, who cradled Him in her arms, stood by Him at the foot of the Cross, should experience bodily decay. Everything we understand about Mary points us to Christ, Catholic Pilgrims. To have a proper relationship with her enhances our relationship with Jesus. Have a blessed Feast of the Immaculate Conception! Get thee to Mass!
Continue ReadingOn a friend's page a few weeks back, I saw a post that talked about not buying into consumerism during Christmas. (pun intended) Cool, cool. I'm with you. But, then it said, "For Christmas, just have a family meal and call it a day." And with that, my eyebrow raised in annoyance. The post was no longer cool to me. I understand the desire to not do the consumerism thing during Christmas. Too much emphasis is placed on truck-loads of presents, buying this, that, and everything. Christmas is not the Season of Buying. Or rather, I should say, Advent is not the Season of Buying. Now, there is nothing inherently wrong with buying gifts. I love finding meaningful, special gifts for people. The emphasis being on presents and things is the problem. But, nowhere in that post was the name of Christ brought up. Christmas isn't about family meals, presents, cookies, travel, parties or even Santa. My dad wrote me the other day and said, "You know something that drives me nuts? When people start talking about getting together with family and friends, decorations, Christmas trees, and presents and someone will say, 'Well, that's what Christmas is all about.' It's sad that it took Linus from 'A Charlie Brown Christmas' to get it right." Jesus. Jesus is Who the Advent and Christmas Seasons are all about. The post could have said, "Don't buy into consumerism this Christmas Season. Get your family and go to Church for Christmas and celebrate Our Savior being born. That's what it's all about." Church is free. Preparing for the coming of Christmas is free. Worshipping Our Savior is free. None of the other stuff is bad, Catholic Pilgrims. But, let's not just refrain from buying stuff, then just have a dinner, and call it a day. Let's lean into our Advent Season as it prepares us for the coming of Christ at Christmas and call it a well-lived season. Live the faith boldly and travel well this Monday.
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