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Inevitably, when I write about a controversial topic—two specific ones come to mind—I’ll get someone in the comments crowd that spouts off, “Jesus ate with sinners!”
As soon as I see the comment, I drop my head and sigh.
Yes, Jesus ate with sinners, He sure did. If He didn’t, the only person on earth He would have been able to eat with would have been His mom.
When I was working at a juvenile detention center, I would engage in different activities with the teens. Sometimes, we’d go on group picnics, sometimes we’d have a baseball game, and sometimes, I’d sit and chat with them in an office.
Never once in all my time of doing that, did I do it because I was condoning the behavior that had landed them in detention. In fact, I spent a good majority of my time trying to teach them how to turn from their bad ways and become a productive member of society. I never minced words with them and pretended like their behavior was okay.
Yes, I was meeting these teens where they were at, but the point was conversion, not toleration of past behaviors.
Too many people see Jesus’ dining habits as acceptance of any and all behaviors. They forget that Christ is about transformation.
Sometimes, though, when dealing with certain crimes, I would feel righteous anger. For example, the one time I was advocating at a court trial for a 13-year old girl that had been sexually assaulted by her dad’s friend—a grown man.
At the trial the guy took the stand, even admitted to what he did, and the jury still found him not-guilty. It was a small town and everybody was friends with the guy. I wanted to throw chairs and upend tables after the verdict was read. I was so angry at the injustice and what a heartless loser I would have been if I hadn’t been angry.
Today, in our readings, Jesus has righteous anger over what is going on at the Temple. Desecrating a holy space is abhorrent; Christ is not going to tolerate it.
There is a time, Catholic Pilgrims, to gently meet people where they are AND urge them to repent of their sins and be transformed by Christ. There is also a time to have righteous anger—especially when grave evil is being committed in front of your face—and say, “This is not happening.”
Live the Faith boldly and travel well.
*Church: St. Anthony of Padua in Istanbul.
"OKLAHOMA, WHERE THE WIND COMES SWEEPIN' DOWN THE PLAIN." (sang in burly man voice) As much as Kansans get bombarded with "Wizard of Oz" jokes, I imagine Oklahomans get bombarded with this song from the musical "Oklahoma." 😅 It's a great musical, btw. Carrying on, though, my wayward sons, today's small town church showcase is St. Anthony of Padua in Okeene, Oklahoma. (Picture sent in by one of you.) Okeene is a tiny little town with a population of 1,040 and it sits northwest of Oklahoma City. This church was built in 1922. It was built to replace the wooden church before it. That one had been damaged in a tornado and the congregation realized that it was time for brick, instead of wood. Hopefully, a tornado wouldn't be able to blow and blow their brick house down. My husband and I stopped in Oklahoma City on our epic road trip last year and I've been bragging about that city ever since. The downtown was clean, interesting, and felt safe and my husband and I had a great time in The Bricks area. We, also, visited the amazing Blessed Stanley Rother Shrine there which is a must-see. A great day trip would be to go see St. Anthony's in Okeene and then head into Oklahoma City to see the Shrine and enjoy an evening downtown on the riverwalk. The outside of this church is lovely and, looking online, the inside is just what we like to see, too. So, if ever you find yourself sweeping across the plains of Oklahoma and have time to stop, go see St. Anthony's in Okeene, Catholic Pilgrims. Have a blessed Tuesday! St. Anthony of Padua Catholic Church
Continue ReadingI heard someone say the other day, "Catholics try to bring people to everything other than Christ first. They try to bring them to the Eucharist, to Mary..." Stop right there. Eucharist = Christ Usually we get dissenters who try to tell us that the Eucharist isn't Christ, but they at least know that we believe that It is Him. This guy was so off the mark that He didn't even realize that we believe the Eucharist is Christ. He thinks that we think we are just bringing people to round wafers. Yes, all day, everyday, I wanna bring people to Christ in the Eucharist. Guilty as charged. Christ did not leave us a mere symbol to help us to symbolically reenact the Last Supper every once in a while. He offers us His Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity in the perpetual Sacrifice offered every day at every Mass, which "re-presents (makes present) the sacrifice of the Cross." "For His Flesh is true food, and His blood is true drink." John 6:55 It is the single most incredible, most miraculous way to get the Divine Life within you, Catholic Pilgrims. Yes, we want to bring people to Our Lord. Live the Faith boldly and travel well this Monday. *Jesus in the monstrance for Adoration at St. Mary of Sorrows in Fairfax, VA
Continue ReadingI heard someone say not too long ago, "As you go through your marriage, and as long as you strive to love your spouse well, you will realize, as you look back, that your wedding day was when you loved your spouse the least." The point of this quote is that on your wedding day, you can't possibly imagine how much more in love you will grow with your spouse. But, that's how love works. There isn't a finite amount and it gets tapped out. I'm not a perfect spouse by any stretch of the imagination, but I have learned how to love Dustin better through the decades. At the beginning of our marriage, I was definitely more selfish, more nitpicky, less patient. The Sacrament of Marriage will, if you let the graces from it work as they should, weed out obstacles to love. I'm reading "The Brothers Karamazov" right now and yesterday I read a great passage. It's from an old priest-monk who is imparting wisdom right before he dies. "Love is a teacher, but a hard one to obtain: learning to love is hard and we pay dearly for it. It takes hard work and a long apprenticeship, for it is not just for a moment that we must learn to love, but forever." I think one of the greatest things I've learned as a wife, is that to properly love my husband, I need to focus on how I can be a better woman. So often, especially early in a marriage, both spouses are trying to change the other person, to mold them into who they want the other to be. I have learned and, I'm still learning, that when I become a better me, I love Dustin better and that, in turn, frees him to be a better him. And I don't want to become better just so that Dustin will fix his faults. I want to become better so that I can love him better. I want him to know that it is my desire to love him more and more as the years go by. Learning to love well does take hard work, because it necessarily requires that you face yourself and see that parts of you need to be changed and nobody likes to think that they are the ones that need to change. I would do anything for love of this man and that includes purging negative parts of me so that I can love him better. That is what we are all called to do as spouses, Catholic Pilgrims. So, love your spouse well, because they are yours to love. *And before any feminist has to ask, yes, he does the same for me.
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