Daily Reflection: 21 February 2023

n our day and age, the secular culture cares about only one virtue—anti-hypocrisy.

Now, before we continue, realize that I am NOT saying that being a hypocrite is good.

Please read that sentence again.

Now you may say, “Well, Amy, it’s a good thing that the culture sees hypocrisy as a bad thing.”

And I would agree with you if those that went around pointing out hypocrites right and left got the definition correct. The vast majority err in two ways.

1.) It is common these days for people to go scrounging around in your past looking for any evidence, however slight, that you said a wrong thing or lived wrongly. It is the “joy” of their hearts to drag said bad thing from the past out from the depths of time and present it to the world as evidence that you are a hypocrite.

When you say, “Yeah, but I’ve changed,” they refuse to allow for any growth or maturity. You are forever defined by past wrongs.

2.) If you say you are for something, like let’s say you are pro-life; if you don’t do EVERYTHING under the sun that pertains to pro-life issues, you are deemed a hypocrite. If you don’t give every ounce of food you have to the hungry, if you don’t house every refugee, if you don’t adopt all orphaned children on earth, if you don’t visit the elderly at all waking hours, well…you are a hypocrite.

Neither of these are the definitions of hypocrisy nor are they realistic to expect of people. A hypocrite is someone who pretends to have virtues for public approval but doesn’t actually live those virtues out in the present—IN THE PRESENT.

Of course, Catholic Pilgrims, we should always work to make sure we are not being hypocrites. Our moral standard is Christ, not those who deny a moral standard in the first place, yet love to wield it as a weapon to trap you forever.

Love the Faith boldly this Tuesday and travel well.

**Picture is of the Hagia Sophia in Istanbul, Turkey.

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