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It is common today to declare that one “is a mess.”
I see this all the time with Christian writers. Time and time again, I see people extolling the supposed virtue of declaring oneself a “hot mess.”
In fact, if someone tries to push back a bit from the messaging of “everyone’s a mess,” you’ll catch flak—big time.
I do realize that some people feel like their lives are a mess.
Some days may feel more chaotic than others.
There are times when tragedy strikes and the ordered cart is completely upended.
Sure, we all have moments, days, or even years of messiness.
And there is no doubt the culture is a steaming pile of mess.
What I don’t like about the messaging, though, is that it subtly implies that we’ll always be a mess and that’s okay. Just embrace it, they say.
I can’t relate to that and maybe you can’t relate to what I’m saying here. Fair enough. But, I feel it gives no hope.
Now, some will read this as though I think my life is perfect. I don’t. I know I sin; I know I mess up; I know my life isn’t par excellence.
But, I also recognize that my life has changed. Where once I was a bit of a mess—emotionally and spiritually—I don’t feel that way anymore. My conversion back to Christ after years of keeping Him in the shadows made the difference.
Confession helps rid me of my sin. The Eucharist is Christ’s divine life in me. In receiving the Sacraments, I receive grace and it truly does help. Scripture keeps me grounded to truth. Daily prayer keeps me connected to the Almighty and I know there is purpose to my life.
I have pictures of the Saints all over my house and they remind me that God truly transforms. The Saints weren’t “hot messes” destined to be that way forever. No, they are imperfect people striving to be more Christ-like and that gave purpose and order to their lives. Doesn’t mean it was easy or that they didn’t struggle, but they would not inspire if they remained just a mess.
Today, we celebrate St. Paul’s conversion. Christ transformed him, which is what Christ can do. All of us, Catholic Pilgrims, can ask Christ for the graces to live our lives well through the good and the bad.
Have a blessed Wednesday.
I made a short reel the other day that was supposed to be kind of funny. In Ireland, I saw tons of electric mowers just chugging along doing the work of making lawns look beautiful. (Everyone's yard in Ireland is pristine, btw. Very impressive.) Anyway, I likened the mowers to the Saints. They just get the good work done that needs to be done in order to make things better. Everyone else stands around gripping and despairing, but the Saints "just keep going, just keep going." To prove my point, Mr. Grumpypants had to show up and grump about how people who think they are Saints are all "naval gazers that think they are better than everyone else." Maybe he thought I was calling myself a Saint and he felt the need to set me straight. I wasn't calling myself that, but I do desire to be one. He said something, though, that I want to focus on. The Saints aren't people that call themselves Saints. They didn't think they were better than everyone else. In fact, they thought they could only do more and more for love of God. Mostly, they were focused on how they could be better and how they could live a mission here on earth to bring Christ to people. The Saints never settled and never do settle. And some people see this as burdensome and too pious. They look at themselves and think, "Hey, I'm a decent person. There's not much more for me to do. I don't want to go overboard with anything. Now, to be sure, loads of other people need to change, but me, I good right where I am." This is difference. True Saints never think of themselves as Saints and if they ever did, they would be full of pride and still have a lot of work to do. True Saints desire to be more Christ-like every day. They ask for grace, depend on that grace to help them restore, heal, and propagate God's kingdom here on earth. Holiness is the goal, Catholic Pilgrims, for love of God. Everyday we will have to ask for the grace to help us reach that goal. Live the Faith boldly and travel well. *St. Mary's located on the Ring of Kerry in Ireland.
Continue ReadingWhere's my Swiss Catholic Pilgrims at? This small-town church showcase is for you. Today, we have St. Ann's in Badus Township in South Dakota. It was built by Swiss immigrants coming into the area in the late 1800s and Badus is the name of a Mountain in Switzerland, hence the name. Within Badus Township, there is only one tiny town called Ramona. This area might win for smallest location in this series. There are only about 60-95 residents in this township today. The township sits on the eastern side of the South Dakota. Today, this church is permanently closed but it did find its way on the National Register of Historical Places in 1979. It was built in 1884. I think this church is a reminder of the pioneering spirit of our country at one time and the importance of religion to the pioneering communities. They built their churches with their own hands. I would imagine that you can't go in anymore, but if you are ever roaming around the eastern agricultural areas of South Dakota, you might find yourself passing this historical church. Have a great Wednesday, Catholic Pilgrims, and live the Faith boldly and travel well.
Continue ReadingIrish Sheepies. That's what I love calling sheep--sheepies. Boy, did we see tons of them in Ireland. Don't worry, the one isn't bleeding. The sheep all have painted markings on them as a sort of brand. Today our Gospel reading is from Matthew and Jesus tells the parable of the lost sheep--an oldie but goodie. I was listening to Jeff Cavins daily reflection on Hallow the other day and he was talking about repetition. He mentioned that when we are kids, we can listen to the same story over and over and over again. I probably read "Red Fish, Blue Fish" to my son a thousand times when he was little. I read it so much that I had to make up funny voices to read it in to make it interesting. He absolutely loved it and giggled the whole time. As adults, though, we don't really like hearing the same story over and over again. Some we do, but for the most part, we say, "Yeah, yeah, yeah, I got it. Don't need to hear it again." Jeff Cavins said in his reflection that "Jesus repeats Himself pretty often, because the truth is that we need to hear certain messages over and over again." The story of God leaving the 99 to go search for the one lost sheep is one that we hear often and there can be a tendency to think that we know it, we get it, nothing new to hear here. But, we need to be reminded over and over again that God will always come for us. How many people think that they are too far gone, that they are too lost for God to ever want them? LOADS of people. No matter how many times we hear the lost sheep parable, people still think that God wouldn't bother with them. So, it clearly is a message we need to hear repeatedly. As Jesus tells us, "It is not the will of your Heavenly Father that one of these little ones be lost." He will always come looking for us if we've lost our way, Catholic Pilgrims. Live the Faith boldly and travel well this Tuesday.
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