Daily Reflection: 27 January 2023

I’ve told this story before, but it begs a repeat.

The summer before we moved from Turkey, my husband’s squadron chaplain hosted a mini-pilgrimage to Istanbul to see some of the Christian sites and to meet the Patriarch of the Eastern Orthodox Church.

It was an extremely memorable trip, but the most memorable part to me was when we walked into this church. We had all kinds on our trip—believers and non-believers. As we walked into this church and our group laid eyes on its beauty, you could see it move everyone to silence.

One-by-one, each member of our group, just kinda sank into a seat and gazed around in awe.

You could have heard a pin drop. I was standing near the back watching all this and I smiled knowing what true beauty can do for a soul. It was powerful to witness.

We were made to behold true beauty, to strive for goodness and to seek truth. Our culture, though, seeks to destroy and replace with ugliness, immoral behavior, and lies.

The beauty of femininity is being mocked by men masquerading in woman face.

Classic art that seeks to draw the mind to new heights is replaced with conformed trash meant to look like…nothing.

The goodness of families and marriage is torn down and treated with contempt. Lust is encouraged and all forms of s€xual deviancy are praised.

Truth is discarded for lies and agendas.

Goodness and virtue are sneered at, while vice is encouraged.

We were made in the image and likeness of God and therefore we were made for beauty, goodness, and truth.

In our culture’s effort to remove God, it loses its beckon and therefore serves up debase, ugly, and even demonic replacements. It creates nothing and offers no solace for the soul. No one is helped or inspired by this garbage.

I saw what true beauty does for a soul when our group walked into this church. It stunned to silence and it made people realize that we are made for more.

Have a blessed Friday, Catholic Pilgrims.

**St. Stephen’s Bulgarian Orthodox Church, Istanbul

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