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My husband was mentoring a young man the other day and was asking him about his plans in his professional and personal life.
While he was a very energetic, smart, thoughtful young man, he hemmed and hawed around with his answers.
He didn’t want to get married till his finances were all set.
My husband asked, “How much money is enough for you to feel comfortable getting married?”
“Uhhhhh…”
He didn’t want to have kids till the magical age of thirty because he had things he wanted to do.
“What are those things you want to do that you can’t do with kids?”
“Uhhhhh….travel.”
“Oh yeah? I’ve traveled everywhere with my kids. Where is it that you want to go that kids would make it impossible and are you planning that trip? And do you think you’ll want to stop traveling after 30?”
“Uhhhhhh…I don’t know.”
At every stage, the young man wanted to make sure everything was utterly perfect before he made a choice or took a step. He wanted the path he was supposed to take lined in gold with signs that said, “This is the way!”
This paralysis is detrimental to living the life God has planned for you; very rarely is God going to say, “Hey, you, this is exactly what I want you to do.”
He gives us free will and so we have to seek His guidance along the path, but a lot of times it involves trusting and taking some risk.
So many times, we sit around asking God, “What do you want me to do?!”
And we get no answer. And we get frustrated and stagnant just waiting for the day the Holy Spirit, in dove form, arrives at our doorstep with a letter enumerating the steps we’re supposed to take.
That isn’t gonna happen.
There is not one perfect way to find our purpose in life. It’s not as if we pick the wrong door, we are doomed forever.
Just start walking and as you walk, pray for guidance, Catholic Pilgrims. The path doesn’t need to be perfect before you go down it; the path, though, can perfect you as you just start walking.
Live the Faith boldly and travel well this Thursday.
ITALY PILGRIMAGE
‘Journey with the Saints’
OCTOBER 23-31, 2023
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